You are more than you realize. You are a big cosmic mirror projecting every emotion, every fear and insecurity into the universe where others pick up on it and feed like energy. If you fear he/she will cheat on you, they probably will. If you fear they will leave you, they more than likely will. If you are suspicious without reason because you never healed all that paranoia, you will attract people who fulfill your fears.
While the universe is a very complicated thing, energy is not. It is tangible and when you combine energy with lower emotions like fear, insecurity, self-loathing, jealousy, hate, resentment, envy and anger, it becomes the glue for like energy to attach to it which then causes it to grow.
As an empath and professional intuitive, I have seen countless people alter the information originally given them by exercising lower emotions verses faith. In the 1990’s I had a client who would fly from Paris regularly to see me. I told her that she was going to meet a man named Len and that he worked in high finance. I told her he was the doppelganger (look alike) of the British actor Charles Dance and I told her she would meet him within less than 2 months AND not to tell me that she had been given this information. I also told her to befriend him first mentioning that he had just gotten out of a bad relationship and was not ready yet for a new one. I warned her to take it slow and let the friendship unfold naturally and he would come around to being the great love of her life in the end.
A few months later I got a call from Cannes, France. She had met Len, he was in high finance, he was the spitting image of actor Charles Dance. But she blew it. She told him about me and everything I had said and of course he ran away as fast as his feet could carry him. She was devastated but knew that her unhealed emotions, neediness and her need for validation had altered the outcome.
Healing your fears and other lower emotions is paramount to attracting the love of your life and ensuring a lasting relationship. Remember that next time you attract a player or someone who is unreliable. Ask yourself, do those traits exist in me? Most of the time you will find they do and you are just drawing a mirrored reflection of you. Everyone has flawed or hang-ups but the best relationships are the ones who have found the perfect balance and can navigate the waters of each other’s issues.
Here’s wishing you success in finding a lasting relationship which is fulfilling and healthy.