This number 1 key point is probably going to make you cringe? Honesty. Honesty is the single most important factor that will keep your relationship strong. This does not mean there will be tough times. In fact, you will probably find that by being honest all the time, it may rock the boat. Yet – at what price do we pay for not being honest? Not allowing our Soul to have it’s authentic expression in all that we say, think, feel and do?
This isn’t about brutal honesty, yet, true authenticity, begins with yourself. How honest are you with yourself? What aspect’s of your life do you lie about to yourself and other people?
When we are completely authentic in relationship, the relationships that are not authentic will fall away. Eeeeek! You may say! Well I am not being honest! Yet, when we have this honest, authentic, open, trustful communication with each other, our relationship moves to the next level. We are able to honour each other’s needs with respect, because there are no hidden motives or intentions. Everything is laid out on the table so to speak.
When there are lies within the self, they spill out onto our relationship. This causes an energetic dischord and the other person can feel it, although, they may be confused about the feeling. When we are able to stay authentic with our thoughts, feelings and actions in our lives, our relationships thrive instead of diving. With this solid relationship built on authenticity, trust, openness and honesty, you will attract and have the relationship that others look at and want. They will ask how you have that and you can answer with one single key word – Honesty.
If you are wondering if your relationship will ever have this authentic spark that is built on the foundation of Honesty, give me a call or text chat and we can have a look at the dynamics and energetic exchanges at play between you both, to see if you have the keys to thriving.