There are many things we can do wrong within relationships that people often are not aware of and don’t understand, many people talk about these things in articles, in magazines, in every source of media you look there will be people from many walks of life telling you what you should not do in relationships what makes relationships go wrong… but…. What about the things that make relationships go right?
I am a strong believer in the power of positive thought. I believe that as humans we are all capable beyond imagination. Thousands of years ago the ancients of this world had a deep understanding of spiritual ability of the power of the mind, they used this in their way of life, to bring forth joy, prosperity, to live peaceful, spiritually fulfilling lives. To live in love.
I have seen so much evidence that the power of thought is like a plan for life, what we think what we focus on we create. Rather then focusing on what not to do, what we don’t like, what we don’t love, what we don’t want, to turn that around and focus on what we do love, what we do
like, what we do want these are things we must do as it is this positive focus that brings change, that brings love, that brings joy and prosperity that brings the meaning you seek.
Below are a list of 5 things to do in order to create a Lifelong Loving Relationship. If applied with self belief and faith. You will have exactly what what you dream of that perfect long loving relationship the one we all dream to have the one that is only arm’s reach away.
Step One: Love Yourself. This is the first step to love in a happy and long relationship, to fall in love with yourself is the most powerful thing to a loving and successful relationship with a significant other, without self love and appreciation you will never be able to create true happiness in a relationship. Love you and then watch the magic happen 🙂
Step Two: Listen and Communicate. This is powerful, always listen and bring understanding to what your partner says, communicate always, bring forth a continuous level of understanding listen to them, allow them to listen to you. Real communication and the ability to listen and not just give your attention and use your ears is powerful. It will go a very long way.
Step Three: Always make time for the two of you. DATE. No matter how old you are no matter how long you have known each other, always make effort to keep the spark whether you have been together 6 months or 30 years, date each other once a month. This is powerful, it helps to keep that sexual energy, that chemistry and that loving connection we all love so much. DATE always and you will never go wrong.
Step Four: Laugh. Always find the funny side of difficult situations, this won’t always happen of course, there will be moments that are hard but if you can make an effort to relax within yourself and love with your partner every now and then the energy between you both will forever remain youthful and joyful creating a platform for a long and happy relationship.
Step Five: Forgiveness. This is my favorite. It is the key ingredient to a lifelong relationship of happiness. To forgive in hardship within your relationship is to create strength, a bong that is unbreakable, forget what you shouldn’t do and focus on what you should. Now matter what happens always forgive and find it in your heart to put things behind you, holding on to things in relationships only create resentment. A little forgiveness and the ability to move forward from difficult times will go a very long way. A Life long way 🙂
Without thinking without allowing room for doubt to come forth in to your mind ( this happens almost always with procrastination) instead ACT today and take these steps with your partner, they will be the foundation of a very happy strong relationship long life and future together. Mark my words 🙂
If you have any questions I am happy to help please contact me on life Reader chat and I will assist you with your questions on love and whatever else comes to mind.
Thank you for reading 🙂