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By Isabella:<\/strong><\/a><\/em><\/span><\/span> So many of you who phone LifeReader, are clinging to relationships which are on life support or which died long ago. By clinging, you squeeze every ounce of life out of any remaining feelings on both sides. Hanging on to an old relationship which no longer serves you, is obsequious at best. It\u2019s like holding onto a sinking ship hoping the tow won\u2019t pull you under. <\/span><\/p>\n

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Learning to trust the choices you make today and those you made as a soul before you ever came to earth, is challenging at best. But there is a rhythm and flow to life, enabled by meditation and other spiritual practices like yoga and when you apply it to your relationships, you understand the forces which are either the glue or the undoing of your love life. <\/span><\/p>\n

Those of you who choose to blame others including your boyfriend, husband, girlfriend or wife for your lot in life, need to remember, they are just a mirror to your own soul. What you blame them for is often more about you. What you dislike in them is more often than not, what you dislike in you. And when the relationship gets to that point, the impasse of blame, perhaps it is the universe’s way of letting you know that you have three choices; grow, acquiesce or move on. <\/span><\/p>\n

If you choose to grow, learn to change your perception and your reactions to your partner. Heal your insecurity, your lack of self-love and above all, neediness. Seek to become the partner you wish to have. Embody all the wonderful traits that make for a good relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n

If you choose to acquiesce, get ready for more drama. Additionally, by staying in a relationship that is for all intents and purposes, over, you prevent new love from arriving at the door to your heart.<\/span><\/p>\n

If you choose to move on, do it with grace. Nothing good ever comes from burning bridges. This is a person you loved\/love. Gracefully exit and even if you don\u2019t want to remain friends, you don\u2019t have to annihilate each other. <\/span><\/p>\n